Working at home with our children, we, as parents, face the age-old dilemma. Doing things the way we know is “right” is much more difficult than taking the ‘easy’ route, a route taken by many others. If we are going to follow the “road less traveled,” we must put on the appropriate hiking boots. Having firmly fixed, high expectations for our childrens’ performance (as well as for their good character) definitely helps during trying times when the pull of commonplace diversions, peer pressure, and the kids’ desires threatens to blow us off course.

One exercise that is helpful within the family is to make those expectations, as well as the reasons for them, clear to the kids. Involve them in a family meeting, where parents can discuss short and long term goals for learning and behavior, and the rationalization behind them. Likewise, this is an opportunity for the kids to formulate and record their own goals, evaluate how they perceive their performance, and ask questions about parents’ goals and objectives. Bringing kids “into the fold” ensures that they not only understand your high expectations, but it encourages that they “buy in” to the entire process.

As this school year begins, what time is better than now to sit down with your kids and have that family meeting?

-Heather

Your child should have an area that is dedicated to his/her academic work, away from the family comings and goings - a place to keep supplies handy, a good surface for writing (and perhaps access to a computer). A few resources that you’ll want to have available are:

• a dictionary and a thesaurus
• a pencil sharpener, extra pencils, highlighters, pens, erasers, etc.
• math supplies such as a ruler, counters (for younger kids), and a calculator if appropriate

The area needs to be well-lit, and might include a radio or cd player so that your child can study with music on in the background (while that could distract some kids, it actually helps others focus – if you are not sure, test it out). Also, be sure that the chair your child is using is comfortable and supports good posture for writing and reading. Additionally, you may consider adding a beanbag chair or comfy pillow in the area for when your child is curled up with a good book.

The study area is also a good place to have organization tools such as a homework calendar, a list of montly goals, a corkboard with pushpins or a whiteboard for jotting down deadlines and reminders, and cues such as the one I’ve provided here, which reminds kids to check their writing to ensure it has met various criteria. Feel free to download this resource and print it for your own use. Or, make your own study resources according to your child’s changing needs.

If your house is like mine, it is a flurry of activity, often bordering on chaos. It is important to think about your child’s academic needs at home, whether he or she is home schooled or leaves the house for school. A love of learning is nurtured in the home, and a snug place for a child to explore books, maps, and ideas will encourage that learning – even through the din of family life.

Heather

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Get out and Enjoy!

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* ReadWriteThink is a website from the International Reading Association and the National Council of Teachers of English. It’s purpose is to provide educators and students with access to the highest quality practices and resources in reading and language arts education.

Enjoy!

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Check out the new PBS Read site.

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